adelicatehappiness-deactivated2 asked: My boyfriend of just over a year dumped me yesterday. I was coming home from vacation, and when I logged onto facebook, I saw he'd changed his relationship status to single. Then I saw a facebook message saying that he didn't love me anymore, he couldn't do this anymore and that he's breaking up with me.. I haven't even cried.. I'm just in so much shock.. We went through so much together, and I know we really loved each other..What do I do? How do I move on from this? I feel so empty..
I am just seeing this now. I am sorry if you left this long again. I have been away for a while.
Men tend to say what you want to hear. EX #1 did that to me. I would of preferred the truth. The only way to get past this is to let time handle it. Yes, that is easy to say, doing it is another thing.
You say you feel empty. Then what you need to do is fill those days with something to do. Start a new hobby or pick up an old one. Call old friends and get together.
Walking is one of the best things I have ever done. It makes you feel better overall. It may take about two weeks to notice but its worth it.
The relationship with #1 was so hard on me, I ended up getting help. It took a few months of therapy but I was feeling much better.
Go at your own pace. You will probably have a lot of questions but let them go. I promise you when you start feeling better this experience will fade away.
Best of luck to you.
