I had a call from ex #1 last night. It started with me because I had a medical question for him (he works in the medical field). He ended up calling me in the middle of night.
By that time, I was already sleeping. I took the call, asked him my two questions and fully expected that it was the end of the conversation. Noooooo! He kept talking. He talked so much I couldn’t get a word in.
This is the second time in a month he has become a chatter box on the phone. It is very strange because this is a guy who hated being on the phone.
Things change when you are no longer involved. You can relax and enjoy the friendship if you choose to stay friends.
I notice he only comes around when he is not involved. Who cares? Not me.
No longer do I beg for his attention.
He called me on Christmas eve, he sent me a card. That was nice but I am no longer longing for those things like I use to.
I am not suggesting you stay friends with someone who hurt you but you will find in time that you will forgive that person, maybe.
