luiisah asked: My question is: my ex- now had went behind my back and got back with his ex- I cut things off with him but he apologized sayin he wanted to be friends but I told him..he would call me like 3a.m. but Im like don't you have what you want so why is he still callin me then??

They call you because they think you still care and that makes them feel secure.

I sent his phone number to voice mail. If I want to talk to him, I will call but if I don’t, I don’t return the call.

If you do not want him around, send his calls to voice mail and eventually he will get the clue.